From Yalkut Yosef:
1. The Mitzvah of Kibbud Av Ve’Em (respecting one’s parents) is also applicable when one’s parents are strict, troubling or causing distress for their children, specifically when they get older. Even if parents are cursing their children or they are difficult people with horrible middot (characteristic traits) the law stands. If the children are justified by everyone and correct in a situation with their parents, they still must continue to fear and respect their parents and are forbidden to embarrass or belittle their parents. In any case, if the parents have horrible middot where it is unbearable and others agree, or the father is a drunk, an angry person then a child may ignore and avoid their parents even if it belittles their respect.
2. A father and son who are in a fight and angry with each other
should stay away from each other due to their angry. The best alternative is to
have both parties live away from each other.
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